Girl On The Street

May 26, 2009

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What is Female Desire? POSTFEMINISM from the NYTIMES

February 2, 2009

“fantasies of rape. According to an analysis of relevant studies published last year in The Journal of Sex Research, an analysis that defines rape as involving “the use of physical force, threat of force, or incapacitation through, for example, sleep or intoxication, to coerce a woman into sexual activity against her will,” between one-third and more than one-half of women have entertained such fantasies, often during intercourse, with at least 1 in 10 women fantasizing about sexual assault at least once per month in a pleasurable way.” “I had been thinking about three ideas from our many talks: the power, for women, in being desired; the keen excitement stoked by descriptions of sex with strangers; and her positing of distinct systems of arousal and desire. This last concept seemed to confound a simpler truth, that women associate lubrication with being turned on. The idea of dual systems appeared, possibly, to be the product of an unscientific impulse, a wish to make comforting sense of the unsettling evidence of women’s arousal during rape and during depictions of sexual assault in the lab.” “Wearing goggles that track eye movement, her subjects looked at pictures of heterosexual foreplay. The men stared far more at the females, their faces and bodies, than at the males. The women gazed equally at the two genders, their eyes drawn to the faces of the men and to the bodies of the women — to the facial expressions, perhaps, of men in states of wanting, and to the sexual allure embodied in the female figures.” “evidence involving rape has influenced her construction of separate systems. She has confronted clinical research reporting not only genital arousal but also the occasional occurrence of orgasm during sexual assault. And she has recalled her own experience as a therapist with victims who recounted these physical responses. She is familiar, as well, with the preliminary results of a laboratory study showing surges of vaginal blood flow as subjects listen to descriptions of rape scenes. So, in an attempt to understand arousal in the context of unwanted sex, Chivers, like a handful of other sexologists, has arrived at an evolutionary hypothesis that stresses the difference between reflexive sexual readiness and desire.”

http://delicious.com/simonstudio/sexual


What is Female Desire? POSTFEMINISM from the NYTIMES

February 2, 2009

“fantasies of rape. According to an analysis of relevant studies published last year in The Journal of Sex Research, an analysis that defines rape as involving “the use of physical force, threat of force, or incapacitation through, for example, sleep or intoxication, to coerce a woman into sexual activity against her will,” between one-third and more than one-half of women have entertained such fantasies, often during intercourse, with at least 1 in 10 women fantasizing about sexual assault at least once per month in a pleasurable way.” “I had been thinking about three ideas from our many talks: the power, for women, in being desired; the keen excitement stoked by descriptions of sex with strangers; and her positing of distinct systems of arousal and desire. This last concept seemed to confound a simpler truth, that women associate lubrication with being turned on. The idea of dual systems appeared, possibly, to be the product of an unscientific impulse, a wish to make comforting sense of the unsettling evidence of women’s arousal during rape and during depictions of sexual assault in the lab.” “Wearing goggles that track eye movement, her subjects looked at pictures of heterosexual foreplay. The men stared far more at the females, their faces and bodies, than at the males. The women gazed equally at the two genders, their eyes drawn to the faces of the men and to the bodies of the women — to the facial expressions, perhaps, of men in states of wanting, and to the sexual allure embodied in the female figures.” “evidence involving rape has influenced her construction of separate systems. She has confronted clinical research reporting not only genital arousal but also the occasional occurrence of orgasm during sexual assault. And she has recalled her own experience as a therapist with victims who recounted these physical responses. She is familiar, as well, with the preliminary results of a laboratory study showing surges of vaginal blood flow as subjects listen to descriptions of rape scenes. So, in an attempt to understand arousal in the context of unwanted sex, Chivers, like a handful of other sexologists, has arrived at an evolutionary hypothesis that stresses the difference between reflexive sexual readiness and desire.”

http://delicious.com/simonstudio/sexual


The REAL Threat is Within

March 16, 2008

threat
I think people like to think of themselves as good people… but we all basically do what is best for our own interests…
for a man: till you knock the girl up… her loyalty is to having fun.
they need to tell boys that in school…. women just don’t love back without the baby
…a lot of boys get heartbroken. they work out… they do they’re best and they wonder why the girl isn’t loyal…
they listen to the Hilary Clintons who tells them to use protection… right? So why didn’t the girl love them back?
that is why the Democrats won’t stay in power… People need to know the truth. they get frustrated when the social lie doesn’t work. Marriage and Children isn’t because it is the “Right” thing to do… Marriage and Children is the “Darwinian” thing to do.
they promised us they were going to re-engineer our relationships to each other.
Instead they left us with a BLUEPRINT of destruction… …and the New York Times thinks John McCain blushing is a sin?
The Democrats already showed us what sexual dysfunction is all about. Now they want a second chance to prosecute sexual harassment? Let us tell them NO! They complain, they moan… they cry about war, when they were the ones against isolationism when they were in power. Why should we pay higher taxes so that you can leave the ladies hysterical and paranoid again?

Women and Death

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Yedda – People. Sharing. Knowledge.Is the real threat within?

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The REAL Threat is Within 

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Answered by SimonStudio on March 15, 2008

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The REAL Threat is Within

March 16, 2008

threat
I think people like to think of themselves as good people… but we all basically do what is best for our own interests…
for a man: till you knock the girl up… her loyalty is to having fun.
they need to tell boys that in school…. women just don’t love back without the baby
…a lot of boys get heartbroken. they work out… they do they’re best and they wonder why the girl isn’t loyal…
they listen to the Hilary Clintons who tells them to use protection… right? So why didn’t the girl love them back?
that is why the Democrats won’t stay in power… People need to know the truth. they get frustrated when the social lie doesn’t work. Marriage and Children isn’t because it is the “Right” thing to do… Marriage and Children is the “Darwinian” thing to do.
they promised us they were going to re-engineer our relationships to each other.
Instead they left us with a BLUEPRINT of destruction… …and the New York Times thinks John McCain blushing is a sin?
The Democrats already showed us what sexual dysfunction is all about. Now they want a second chance to prosecute sexual harassment? Let us tell them NO! They complain, they moan… they cry about war, when they were the ones against isolationism when they were in power. Why should we pay higher taxes so that you can leave the ladies hysterical and paranoid again?

Women and Death

Check out this interesting answer on Yedda

Yedda – People. Sharing. Knowledge.Is the real threat within?

more on the issue 

The REAL Threat is Within 

http://simonstudiotheatre.blogspot.com/2008/03/real-threat-is-within.html 

Topics:  , , , , , , ,

Answered by SimonStudio on March 15, 2008

View the entire discussion on YeddaYedda – People. Sharing. Knowledge.


Wrongly Accused of Rape When I was a Virgin 16 year old in 1990

March 2, 2008
via video.seesmic.com

here is a reminder of the deed
that Brian/aMANdaCHAPel
says I did… supposively…

@aMANdaCHAPel this story is about a disturbed person who asked
me2do something & then did 2me what U R doing: LIBEL!

DNA evidence has freed an awful lot of people on death row… it has justified the last thirty years of “Lefties” by proving innocence on decade old cases. But with rape the evidence is undeniable there in DNA. Only contrary argument is was it willing? I know many cases where a woman wanted it and then regretted it. When I was 16 I had a 14 year old girl accuse me of rape. She told all her friends and her older brother this. Her eighteen year old brother came to my house to kill me and my parents had to call the police. The irony was that I had not even had sex with her. She was incapable of dealing with her own guilt and was cheating on me with another kid. I did climb into her window (romantically with flowers) fondled her breasts and then left when I realized she didn’t love me by the way she was rejecting me… but we had been dating. At any rate my mother eventually got her on the phone and pried the truth out as she recorded the conversation. Ever since that event my mother has been way over protective of me… and it is understandable. No I hadn’t raped the girl. I was even a virgin at the time… but this girl had serious issues and I’m willing to bet she let the other man have sex with her and she was regretting that too. So she projected the felt self hatred. I was guilty of breaking and entering (I guess on the legal level). But I thought we were together at the time. She was just a trashy 14 year old girl who had a lot of Catholic School girl pent up self hatred. (no I’m not attacking Catholicism, just this private school). The next year the girl switched out of her Catholic school and moved into the public school I was at. She knew I attended the school and I think she wanted to come because she was sorry. Also the ostracizing she must of experienced as the result of wrongly accusing me must of been horrendous in that tiny little school she went to. By the time she was at my school it was as though she had completely fallen apart mentally. She had put on about forty pounds and her face broke out in a rash of pimples. She was sexually promiscuous and she had a reputation She was no longer the pretty 14 year old girl I met at the arcade in Westwood California. We only dated three or four time and had never been sexually active. I still love this girl… I remember who she was at first. I’m pretty sure things were not right for her at home and her parents were divorcing. I am sorry for climbing into her window… and no I won’t ever break the law again for romantic reasons. I understand the ladies like men to do crazy stuff to prove out love… but if they don’t love themselves, proving you love them unconditionally won’t accomplish anything in the long term.