Feminists Psychoanalyze Themselves Again — November 2009 Phyllis Schlafly Report

November 29, 2009


wow… the polygamy bit of threw me for a curve ball. I had no idea. Funny that the husband of Samantha Power (aka let’s invade Israel) was involved. that is creepy. Cass Sunstein is a stupid man, but now I feel bad because I suspect some over the top stuff going on in Samantha’s bed. yuck. Trying to legalize polygamy? I never would of thought feminists hated themselves that much. What comes to mind is the movie “Ice Storm” by Ang Lee

Posted via web from noahdavidsimon’s posterous

If our government cannot define marriage as the union of one man and one woman, it follows that there can be no law against the union of a man and several women, which is totally demeaning and harmful to women.

The very first Platform adopted by the Republican Party, in 1856, condemned polygamy and slavery as the “twin relics of barbarism.” Always a stalwart defender of traditional marriage, the 2008 Republican Platform calls for “a constitutional amendment that fully protects marriage as a union of a man and a woman, so that judges cannot make other arrangements equivalent to it.” It’s vitally important that the Republican Party continue to be the standard-bearer for traditional marriage.

We thought our nation had definitely settled the polygamy issue a century and a half ago, but it recently raised its ugly head. The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) is on record as supporting polygamy. The ACLU’s feminist president, Nadine Strossen, stated in a speech at Yale University in June 2005 that the ACLU defends “the right of individuals to engage in polygamy.” And on October 15, 2006, in a high-profile debate against Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia, Strossen stated that the ACLU supports the right to polygamy.

Speaking to the Federalist Society on November 18, 2006, the ACLU’s executive director, Anthony Romero, confirmed his organization’s support of polygamy.

The massive immigration that the United States has accepted in recent years includes large numbers of immigrants from Third World countries that practice polygamy and marriage to children and close relatives. We wonder if polygamists have been allowed to immigrate and if they are continuing these customs in U.S. neighborhoods.

President Obama’s nominee for a commissioner of the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), a lesbian law-school professor named Chai R. Feldblum, signed a radical manifesto that endorsed polygamous households (i.e., “in which there is more than one conjugal partner”). Signed in 2006, this manifesto, entitled “Beyond Same-Sex Marriage: A New Strategic Vision for All Our Families & Relationships,” argues that traditional marriage “should not be legally and economically privileged above all others.” The American people obviously think otherwise, and current laws reflect our wishes.

Feldblum is not the only pro-polygamy Obama appointee. His Regulatory Czar, Cass Sunstein, wrote a book in 2008 called Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth and Happiness in which he urged that “the word marriage would no longer appear in any laws, and marriage licenses would no longer be offered or recognized by any level of government.”

Sunstein argues that traditional marriage discriminates against single people by imposing “serious economic and material disadvantages.” He asks, “Why not leave people’s relationships to their own choices, subject to the judgments of private organizations, religious and otherwise?”

Sunstein also suggests “routine removal” of human organs because “the state owns the rights to body parts of people who are dead or in certain hopeless conditions, and it can remove their organs without asking anyone’s permission.”

In Socialist Canada, which has already approved same-sex marriage, polygamy has suddenly become a live issue. In a current lawsuit, British Columbia’s Supreme Court is being asked to decide if polygamy should remain illegal.

Traditional marriage is essential to a stable society. We should maintain government’s proper role in defining it and protecting it.

The feminists have been strikingly successful with
this goal; women are now half the labor force, and 40% of
women are essential family breadwinners.

In the current recession, the majority of workers
laid off have been men (especially from construction and
manufacturing). Jobs where women predominate have not
been much affected.

Even so, the feminists demanded that the Obama
Administration give half the Stimulus jobs to women rather than
to the shovel-ready work that was the reason for passing
the Stimulus funds. Whatever the feminists demand from the Demo

crats they get, and the Stimulus money was directed to jobs
in education, health care, and social services. The feminists’
tactics to divert Stimulus jobs to women were described in
the July 2009 Phyllis Schlafly Report.

So what are the feminists complaining about? Now
that women are half the work force, they want workforce rules
to be changed to be more female-friendly. (These are the
same feminists who have been saying for years that there is no
difference between male and female.) Feminists demand
that the taxpayers provide high-quality daycare and paid family
leave, that new laws prohibit employers from ordering women to
work overtime (as men are often required to do), and probably that
men should be forced to assume half the household and
baby-care duties.

The feminists are still crying about President Richard
Nixon vetoing a federal program to make daycare a
middle-class entitlement. But Nixon’s action was popular then and still
is, because the majority of Americans don’t want their tax
dollars to pay for babysitters for other people’s children.

No doubt this will come as a shock to the feminists,
but Time Magazine reports that “a majority of both men and
women still say it is best for children to have a father working and
a mother at home.”

Women’s percentage in the labor force keeps rising
because of who is going to college and who drops out.
Thirty years ago, the ratio of males to females on college
campuses was 60-40; now it’s 40-60, and women receive the majority
of college degrees.

But the feminists are griping because women
students choose humanities majors that lead to lesser paid jobs
than male students, who in larger numbers choose math,
science and engineering. The feminists want government to
remedy this gender difference by bribing women with taxpayers’
money to make other choices. (Feminists claim that there are no
gender differences, but they demand government intervention
to override women’s choices.)

The feminists push hard for what they call
“Title-Nining,” using Title IX, which bans sex discrimination in schools
and colleges, to force equal numbers of women in all athletic programs. Since this misuse of Title IX was initiated by
radical feminists in Jimmy Carter’s Education Department, the
feminists have forced colleges to eliminate thousands of
men’s teams, including many championship teams and more
than 450 wrestling teams. Now the feminists are Title-Nining
science and math departments. Using phony charges of
gender bias, they are directing millions of dollars of federal and
university money to override women’s choices in
order to increase the number of women in math and science at
the expense of men.

Joanne Lipman, who has held several of the biggest
jobs in publishing but still whines that “progress for women
has stalled,” nevertheless makes a couple of sensible comments.
She writes that feminists defined “progress for women
too narrowly; we’ve focused primarily on numbers at the
expense of attitudes.”

She’s right about that. Attitude is the problem with
feminists; as long as they believe they are victims of an
oppressive patriarchy, they will never be successful. Women won’t
be happy as long as they believe the false slogan (repeated
in most of these current articles) that women make only 77
cents on the dollar compared to men. The Equal Pay Law
was passed in 1963, but requires equal pay only
for equal work, and women in the labor force don’t work nearly as
many hours per week as men do, and women voluntarily
choose jobs that pay less.

Lipman also urges feminists to “have a sense of
humor.” That’s a very constructive proposal. When I tell a joke
during my college lectures, I can identify the feminists by the
students who are not laughing.

Only one sentence in all these feminist articles
confronts the fundamental reason why today’s women are not as
happy as women were in 1972. Time Magazine wrote: “Among
the most dramatic changes in the past generation is the
detachment of marriage and motherhood.”

That’s what the feminist movement did to America.
All those impressive statistics about women holding
well-paying jobs and receiving college degrees will not produce
happy women as long as 39% of children are born to
unmarried mothers who lack a loving husband.

And one more glaring point: the lack of grandchildren
isn’t mentioned in these exposés of women’s unhappiness. In
rejecting marriage, most feminists also rejected the
grandchildren who could have provided a significant measure
of women’s happiness.

Feminists Are Still Unhappy

All this self-psychoanalyzing of women’s attitudes appears to have been triggered by a study released earlier this year
by the National Bureau of Economic Research and published in the American Economic Journal. Called “The Paradox
of Declining Female Happiness,” this report concluded that women’s happiness has measurably declined since 1970.
Since this study covers the same time period as the rise of the
so-called women’s liberation movement, the feminists
recognized it as a challenge to the goals and alleged achievements
of their movement.

The authors, University of Pennsylvania
economists Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers, advanced a theory
that the women’s liberation movement “raised women’s
expectations” (sold them a bill of goods), making them feel
inadequate when they fail to have it all. The authors also presented
a second theory that the demands on women who are
both mothers and jobholders in the labor force are overwhelming.

A more realistic explanation is that the feminist
movement taught women to see themselves as victims of an
oppressive patriarchy in which their true worth will never
be recognized and any success is beyond their reach. If you
believe you can never succeed because you are a helpless
victim of mean men, you are probably correct.

Feminist organizations such as the National
Organization for Women held consciousness-raising sessions where
they exchanged tales of how badly some man had treated
them. Grievances are like flowers; if you water them, they will
grow, and self-imposed victimhood is not a recipe for happiness.

Another explanation for women’s unhappiness could
be the increase in easy divorce and illegitimacy (39% of
American births are now born to single moms), which means
that millions of women are raising kids without a husband and
therefore expect Big Brother government to substitute as
provider. The 2008 election returns showed that 70% of
unmarried women
voted for Barack Obama, perhaps hoping to be
beneficiaries of his “spread the wealth around” policies.

In the pre-1970 era, when surveys showed women
with higher levels of happiness, most men held jobs that
enabled their wives to be fulltime homemakers. At the same time,
the private enterprise system produced many products that
make household work and kiddie care easier (such as dryers,
dishwashers, and paper diapers).

Betty Friedan started the feminist movement in the
late 1960s with her book The Feminine
Mystique
, which created the myth that suburban housewives were suffering from
“a sense of dissatisfaction” with their alleged-to-be-boring
lives. To liberate women from the home that Friedan labeled
“a comfortable concentration camp,” the feminist
movement worked tirelessly to make the fulltime homemaker
dissatisfied with her role.

Economic need plays no role in the feminist
argument that women should seek labor-force jobs. Feminists
encourage wives to leave the home because marriage is
allegedly archaic and oppressive to women. A job in the labor force
is upheld as so much more fulfilling than tending babies and
preparing dinner for a hard-working husband.

Women’s Studies courses require students to accept as an article of faith the silly notion that gender differences
are not natural or biological but are social constructs created
by the patriarchy and ancient stereotypes. This leads
feminists to seek legislative corrections for problems that don’t exist.

A former editor of the Ladies’ Home
Journal
, Myrna Blyth, wrote in her book, Spin Sisters: How the Women
of the Media Sell Unhappiness and Liberalism to the
Women of America
, that the anorexic blondes on television are
every day selling the falsehood that women’s lives are full of
misery and threats from men. Bernard Goldberg calls the
mainstream media “one of America’s most pro-feminist institutions.”

According to feminist ideology, the only
gender-specific characteristic is that men are naturally batterers who
make all women victims. On that theory, the feminists conned
Congress into passing the Violence Against Women Act (note
the sex discriminatory title), which includes a handout of a
billion dollars a year to finance the feminists’ political, legislative
and judicial goals.

The feminists whine endlessly using their favorite
word “choice” in matters of abortion, but they reject choice in
gender roles. The Big Mama of feminist studies, Simone
de Beauvoir, said, “We don’t believe that any woman should
have this choice. No woman should be authorized to stay at
home to raise her children . . . precisely because if there is such
a choice, too many women will make that one.”

The feminists have carried on a long-running campaign
to make husbands and fathers irrelevant and unnecessary
except to provide a paycheck. Most divorces are initiated
by women. More women than men request same-sex
marriage licenses in Massachusetts so that, with two
affirmative-action jobs plus in vitro fertilization, they can create a
“family” without husbands or fathers.

Despite the false messages of the colleges and the
media, most American women are smart enough to reject
the label feminist, and only 20% of mothers say they want
full-time work in the labor force. Women suffering from
unhappiness should look into how women are treated in the rest of
the world, and then maybe American women would realize
they are the most fortunate people on earth.

Feminist Attack on Marriage

While the gay lobby gets most of the blame for the
assault on the institution of marriage, the modern feminist
movement has always been virulently and effectively anti-marriage.
When the movement marched onto the stage of the
culture war in the late 1960s and early 1970s, they called
themselves the women’s liberation movement. The buzz word was
liberation, which specifically meant liberation from home,
husband, family and children.

Harvard Professor Harvey Mansfield’s book
entitled Manliness includes a most informative chapter called
“Womanly Nihilism.” Mansfield rightly concludes that the
20th-century feminist intellectuals, such as Simone de
Beauvoir, Betty Friedan, Kate Millett and Germaine Greer, wanted
independence not only from men, but from morality and
from human nature and motherhood.

The feminists’ first legislative triumph was to change
the divorce laws of all 50 states to unilateral divorce,
i.e., allowing one spouse to walk out of marriage without the consent
of the other spouse, and without having to allege any fault
or reason to sever the marriage contract. Big media eagerly
cooperated to promote the notion that we have moved into
an era of “serial” (rather than lifetime) marriages. “Ozzie
and Harriet,” a then-popular sitcom featuring a traditional
family, became a favorite epithet for feminists to scoff at
traditional marriage and the role of the fulltime homemaker.

The feminists’ second victory was
Roe v. Wade. Abortion has always been central to the feminist movement
(proving there is no connection with the movement for
women’s right to vote, whose leaders were very anti-abortion).

Their third victory (a Gloria Steinem favorite) was
getting President Jimmy Carter to pluralize the name of
his White House Conference on Families in order to
popularize the notion that non-traditional families should be
recognized and included.

The anti-marriage feminists stormed state capitols to
repeal the laws designed to respect morality and preserve
marriage, such as the laws against adultery, fornication,
sodomy, and alienation of affection.

The only goal they failed to achieve was ratification
of the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA).

Meanwhile, beginning with Lyndon Johnson’s Great
Society in the late 1960s, the welfare system was working
hard to dismantle marriage by channeling taxpayers’ money
only to mothers, thereby making the husband and father
irrelevant and unnecessary to the family’s economic well-being.
Widespread illegitimacy and single moms were the predictable
result, producing the matriarchy that the feminists sought.

Feminist solidarity with the gay rights movement was
cemented at the International Women’s Year (IWY)
Conference in Houston in 1977, following impassioned
emotional entreaties by Betty Friedan and Eleanor Smeal. IWY
resolutions proclaimed the feminists’ attack not only on
traditional marriage, but also on motherhood. Feminists view
society’s expectation that mothers should care for their own
children as oppressive discrimination against women.

Marriage: One Man, One Woman

The institution of marriage as the union of one man
and one woman has been fundamental to America ever since
the founding of our nation. When the famous French
commentator Alexis de Tocqueville traveled the United States in
the early-19th century, he recognized the fact that respect
for marriage is very American. He wrote: “There is certainly no country in the world where the tie of marriage is more
respected than in America, or where conjugal happiness is
more highly or worthily appreciated.”

Not only do American laws specifically recognize
marriage as the union of one man and one woman, but
many laws legislate special benefits to the institution of
marriage. The Government Accountability Office (GAO)
identified more than 1,000 federal laws that are based on the
definition of marriage in its traditional meaning, including the
tax laws that permit married couples the advantage of filing
joint income tax returns and the Social Security benefits
awarded to fulltime homemakers.

Attacks on the definition of marriage as the union of
one man and one woman come from the gay lobby seeking
social recognition of their lifestyle, from the feminist movement
that opposes what they call the patriarchy (that supposedly
makes women second-class citizens), and also from some
libertarians who believe marriage should be merely a private
affair and/or a religious contract, and that the terms of this
union should be none of the government’s business. These
libertarians want to deny government the right to define
marriage, set its standards, or issue marriage licenses.

Government’s Role in Marriage

Government has and should have a very important role
in defining who may get a license to marry. In America, it is
and should be a criminal offense to marry more than one person
at a time, or marry a child, or a close relative, even though
such practices are common in some foreign countries.


Feminists Psychoanalyze Themselves Again

November 29, 2009

Cass Sunstein is a stupid man, but now I feel bad because I suspect some over the top stuff going on in Samantha’s bed. yuck. the polygamy bit of threw me for a curve ball. I had no idea. Funny that the husband of Samantha Power  
(aka let’s invade Israel) was involved.

 that is creepy.  Trying to legalize polygamy? I never would of thought feminists hated themselves that much. What comes to mind is the movie “Ice Storm” by Ang Lee
Posted via web from noahdavidsimon’s posterous

If our government cannot define marriage as the union of one man and one woman, it follows that there can be no law against the union of a man and several women, which is totally demeaning and harmful to women.
The very first Platform adopted by the Republican Party, in 1856, condemned polygamy and slavery as the “twin relics of barbarism.” Always a stalwart defender of traditional marriage, the 2008 Republican Platform calls for “a constitutional amendment that fully protects marriage as a union of a man and a woman, so that judges cannot make other arrangements equivalent to it.” It’s vitally important that the Republican Party continue to be the standard-bearer for traditional marriage.

We thought our nation had definitely settled the polygamy issue a century and a half ago, but it recently raised its ugly head. The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) is on record as supporting polygamy. The ACLU’s feminist president, Nadine Strossen, stated in a speech at Yale University in June 2005 that the ACLU defends “the right of individuals to engage in polygamy.” And on October 15, 2006, in a high-profile debate against Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia, Strossen stated that the ACLU supports the right to polygamy.
Speaking to the Federalist Society on November 18, 2006, the ACLU’s executive director, Anthony Romero, confirmed his organization’s support of polygamy.
The massive immigration that the United States has accepted in recent years includes large numbers of immigrants from Third World countries that practice polygamy and marriage to children and close relatives. We wonder if polygamists have been allowed to immigrate and if they are continuing these customs in U.S. neighborhoods.
President Obama’s nominee for a commissioner of the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), a lesbian law-school professor named Chai R. Feldblum, signed a radical manifesto that endorsed polygamous households (i.e., “in which there is more than one conjugal partner”). Signed in 2006, this manifesto, entitled “Beyond Same-Sex Marriage: A New Strategic Vision for All Our Families & Relationships,” argues that traditional marriage “should not be legally and economically privileged above all others.” The American people obviously think otherwise, and current laws reflect our wishes.
Feldblum is not the only pro-polygamy Obama appointee. His Regulatory Czar, Cass Sunstein, wrote a book in 2008 called Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth and Happiness in which he urged that “the word marriage would no longer appear in any laws, and marriage licenses would no longer be offered or recognized by any level of government.”
Sunstein argues that traditional marriage discriminates against single people by imposing “serious economic and material disadvantages.” He asks, “Why not leave people’s relationships to their own choices, subject to the judgments of private organizations, religious and otherwise?”
Sunstein also suggests “routine removal” of human organs because “the state owns the rights to body parts of people who are dead or in certain hopeless conditions, and it can remove their organs without asking anyone’s permission.”
In Socialist Canada, which has already approved same-sex marriage, polygamy has suddenly become a live issue. In a current lawsuit, British Columbia’s Supreme Court is being asked to decide if polygamy should remain illegal.
Traditional marriage is essential to a stable society. We should maintain government’s proper role in defining it and protecting it.

The feminists have been strikingly successful with
this goal; women are now half the labor force, and 40% of
women are essential family breadwinners.
In the current recession, the majority of workers
laid off have been men (especially from construction and
manufacturing). Jobs where women predominate have not
been much affected.

Even so, the feminists demanded that the Obama
Administration give half the Stimulus jobs to women rather than
to the shovel-ready work that was the reason for passing
the Stimulus funds. Whatever the feminists demand from the Demo

crats they get, and the Stimulus money was directed to jobs
in education, health care, and social services. The feminists’
tactics to divert Stimulus jobs to women were described in
the July 2009 Phyllis Schlafly Report.

So what are the feminists complaining about? Now
that women are half the work force, they want workforce rules
to be changed to be more female-friendly. (These are the
same feminists who have been saying for years that there is no
difference between male and female.) Feminists demand
that the taxpayers provide high-quality daycare and paid family
leave, that new laws prohibit employers from ordering women to
work overtime (as men are often required to do), and probably that
men should be forced to assume half the household and
baby-care duties.

The feminists are still crying about President Richard
Nixon vetoing a federal program to make daycare a
middle-class entitlement. But Nixon’s action was popular then and still
is, because the majority of Americans don’t want their tax
dollars to pay for babysitters for other people’s children.

No doubt this will come as a shock to the feminists,
but Time Magazine reports that “a majority of both men and
women still say it is best for children to have a father working and
a mother at home.”

Women’s percentage in the labor force keeps rising
because of who is going to college and who drops out.
Thirty years ago, the ratio of males to females on college
campuses was 60-40; now it’s 40-60, and women receive the majority
of college degrees.

But the feminists are griping because women
students choose humanities majors that lead to lesser paid jobs
than male students, who in larger numbers choose math,
science and engineering. The feminists want government to
remedy this gender difference by bribing women with taxpayers’
money to make other choices. (Feminists claim that there are no
gender differences, but they demand government intervention
to override women’s choices.)

The feminists push hard for what they call
“Title-Nining,” using Title IX, which bans sex discrimination in schools
and colleges, to force equal numbers of women in all athletic programs. Since this misuse of Title IX was initiated by
radical feminists in Jimmy Carter’s Education Department, the
feminists have forced colleges to eliminate thousands of
men’s teams, including many championship teams and more
than 450 wrestling teams. Now the feminists are Title-Nining
science and math departments. Using phony charges of
gender bias, they are directing millions of dollars of federal and
university money to override women’s choices in
order to increase the number of women in math and science at
the expense of men.

Joanne Lipman, who has held several of the biggest
jobs in publishing but still whines that “progress for women
has stalled,” nevertheless makes a couple of sensible comments.
She writes that feminists defined “progress for women
too narrowly; we’ve focused primarily on numbers at the
expense of attitudes.”

She’s right about that. Attitude is the problem with
feminists; as long as they believe they are victims of an
oppressive patriarchy, they will never be successful. Women won’t
be happy as long as they believe the false slogan (repeated
in most of these current articles) that women make only 77
cents on the dollar compared to men. The Equal Pay Law
was passed in 1963, but requires equal pay only
for equal work, and women in the labor force don’t work nearly as
many hours per week as men do, and women voluntarily
choose jobs that pay less.

Lipman also urges feminists to “have a sense of
humor.” That’s a very constructive proposal. When I tell a joke
during my college lectures, I can identify the feminists by the
students who are not laughing.

Only one sentence in all these feminist articles
confronts the fundamental reason why today’s women are not as
happy as women were in 1972. Time Magazine wrote: “Among
the most dramatic changes in the past generation is the
detachment of marriage and motherhood.”

That’s what the feminist movement did to America.
All those impressive statistics about women holding
well-paying jobs and receiving college degrees will not produce
happy women as long as 39% of children are born to
unmarried mothers who lack a loving husband.

And one more glaring point: the lack of grandchildren
isn’t mentioned in these exposés of women’s unhappiness. In
rejecting marriage, most feminists also rejected the
grandchildren who could have provided a significant measure
of women’s happiness.

Feminists Are Still Unhappy

All this self-psychoanalyzing of women’s attitudes appears to have been triggered by a study released earlier this year
by the National Bureau of Economic Research and published in the American Economic Journal. Called “The Paradox
of Declining Female Happiness,” this report concluded that women’s happiness has measurably declined since 1970.
Since this study covers the same time period as the rise of the
so-called women’s liberation movement, the feminists
recognized it as a challenge to the goals and alleged achievements
of their movement.

The authors, University of Pennsylvania
economists Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers, advanced a theory
that the women’s liberation movement “raised women’s
expectations” (sold them a bill of goods), making them feel
inadequate when they fail to have it all. The authors also presented
a second theory that the demands on women who are
both mothers and jobholders in the labor force are overwhelming.

A more realistic explanation is that the feminist
movement taught women to see themselves as victims of an
oppressive patriarchy in which their true worth will never
be recognized and any success is beyond their reach. If you
believe you can never succeed because you are a helpless
victim of mean men, you are probably correct.

Feminist organizations such as the National
Organization for Women held consciousness-raising sessions where
they exchanged tales of how badly some man had treated
them. Grievances are like flowers; if you water them, they will
grow, and self-imposed victimhood is not a recipe for happiness.

Another explanation for women’s unhappiness could
be the increase in easy divorce and illegitimacy (39% of
American births are now born to single moms), which means
that millions of women are raising kids without a husband and
therefore expect Big Brother government to substitute as
provider. The 2008 election returns showed that 70% of
unmarried women
voted for Barack Obama, perhaps hoping to be
beneficiaries of his “spread the wealth around” policies.

In the pre-1970 era, when surveys showed women
with higher levels of happiness, most men held jobs that
enabled their wives to be fulltime homemakers. At the same time,
the private enterprise system produced many products that
make household work and kiddie care easier (such as dryers,
dishwashers, and paper diapers).

Betty Friedan started the feminist movement in the
late 1960s with her book The Feminine
Mystique
, which created the myth that suburban housewives were suffering from
“a sense of dissatisfaction” with their alleged-to-be-boring
lives. To liberate women from the home that Friedan labeled
“a comfortable concentration camp,” the feminist
movement worked tirelessly to make the fulltime homemaker
dissatisfied with her role.

Economic need plays no role in the feminist
argument that women should seek labor-force jobs. Feminists
encourage wives to leave the home because marriage is
allegedly archaic and oppressive to women. A job in the labor force
is upheld as so much more fulfilling than tending babies and
preparing dinner for a hard-working husband.

Women’s Studies courses require students to accept as an article of faith the silly notion that gender differences
are not natural or biological but are social constructs created
by the patriarchy and ancient stereotypes. This leads
feminists to seek legislative corrections for problems that don’t exist.

A former editor of the Ladies’ Home
Journal
, Myrna Blyth, wrote in her book, Spin Sisters: How the Women
of the Media Sell Unhappiness and Liberalism to the
Women of America
, that the anorexic blondes on television are
every day selling the falsehood that women’s lives are full of
misery and threats from men. Bernard Goldberg calls the
mainstream media “one of America’s most pro-feminist institutions.”

According to feminist ideology, the only
gender-specific characteristic is that men are naturally batterers who
make all women victims. On that theory, the feminists conned
Congress into passing the Violence Against Women Act (note
the sex discriminatory title), which includes a handout of a
billion dollars a year to finance the feminists’ political, legislative
and judicial goals.

The feminists whine endlessly using their favorite
word “choice” in matters of abortion, but they reject choice in
gender roles. The Big Mama of feminist studies, Simone
de Beauvoir, said, “We don’t believe that any woman should
have this choice. No woman should be authorized to stay at
home to raise her children . . . precisely because if there is such
a choice, too many women will make that one.”

The feminists have carried on a long-running campaign
to make husbands and fathers irrelevant and unnecessary
except to provide a paycheck. Most divorces are initiated
by women. More women than men request same-sex
marriage licenses in Massachusetts so that, with two
affirmative-action jobs plus in vitro fertilization, they can create a
“family” without husbands or fathers.

Despite the false messages of the colleges and the
media, most American women are smart enough to reject
the label feminist, and only 20% of mothers say they want
full-time work in the labor force. Women suffering from
unhappiness should look into how women are treated in the rest of
the world, and then maybe American women would realize
they are the most fortunate people on earth.

Feminist Attack on Marriage

While the gay lobby gets most of the blame for the
assault on the institution of marriage, the modern feminist
movement has always been virulently and effectively anti-marriage.
When the movement marched onto the stage of the
culture war in the late 1960s and early 1970s, they called
themselves the women’s liberation movement. The buzz word was
liberation, which specifically meant liberation from home,
husband, family and children.

Harvard Professor Harvey Mansfield’s book
entitled Manliness includes a most informative chapter called
“Womanly Nihilism.” Mansfield rightly concludes that the
20th-century feminist intellectuals, such as Simone de
Beauvoir, Betty Friedan, Kate Millett and Germaine Greer, wanted
independence not only from men, but from morality and
from human nature and motherhood.

The feminists’ first legislative triumph was to change
the divorce laws of all 50 states to unilateral divorce,
i.e., allowing one spouse to walk out of marriage without the consent
of the other spouse, and without having to allege any fault
or reason to sever the marriage contract. Big media eagerly
cooperated to promote the notion that we have moved into
an era of “serial” (rather than lifetime) marriages. “Ozzie
and Harriet,” a then-popular sitcom featuring a traditional
family, became a favorite epithet for feminists to scoff at
traditional marriage and the role of the fulltime homemaker.

The feminists’ second victory was
Roe v. Wade. Abortion has always been central to the feminist movement
(proving there is no connection with the movement for
women’s right to vote, whose leaders were very anti-abortion).

Their third victory (a Gloria Steinem favorite) was
getting President Jimmy Carter to pluralize the name of
his White House Conference on Families in order to
popularize the notion that non-traditional families should be
recognized and included.

The anti-marriage feminists stormed state capitols to
repeal the laws designed to respect morality and preserve
marriage, such as the laws against adultery, fornication,
sodomy, and alienation of affection.

The only goal they failed to achieve was ratification
of the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA).

Meanwhile, beginning with Lyndon Johnson’s Great
Society in the late 1960s, the welfare system was working
hard to dismantle marriage by channeling taxpayers’ money
only to mothers, thereby making the husband and father
irrelevant and unnecessary to the family’s economic well-being.
Widespread illegitimacy and single moms were the predictable
result, producing the matriarchy that the feminists sought.

Feminist solidarity with the gay rights movement was
cemented at the International Women’s Year (IWY)
Conference in Houston in 1977, following impassioned
emotional entreaties by Betty Friedan and Eleanor Smeal. IWY
resolutions proclaimed the feminists’ attack not only on
traditional marriage, but also on motherhood. Feminists view
society’s expectation that mothers should care for their own
children as oppressive discrimination against women.

Marriage: One Man, One Woman

The institution of marriage as the union of one man
and one woman has been fundamental to America ever since
the founding of our nation. When the famous French
commentator Alexis de Tocqueville traveled the United States in
the early-19th century, he recognized the fact that respect
for marriage is very American. He wrote: “There is certainly no country in the world where the tie of marriage is more
respected than in America, or where conjugal happiness is
more highly or worthily appreciated.”

Not only do American laws specifically recognize
marriage as the union of one man and one woman, but
many laws legislate special benefits to the institution of
marriage. The Government Accountability Office (GAO)
identified more than 1,000 federal laws that are based on the
definition of marriage in its traditional meaning, including the
tax laws that permit married couples the advantage of filing
joint income tax returns and the Social Security benefits
awarded to fulltime homemakers.

Attacks on the definition of marriage as the union of
one man and one woman come from the gay lobby seeking
social recognition of their lifestyle, from the feminist movement
that opposes what they call the patriarchy (that supposedly
makes women second-class citizens), and also from some
libertarians who believe marriage should be merely a private
affair and/or a religious contract, and that the terms of this
union should be none of the government’s business. These
libertarians want to deny government the right to define
marriage, set its standards, or issue marriage licenses.

Government’s Role in Marriage

Government has and should have a very important role
in defining who may get a license to marry. In America, it is
and should be a criminal offense to marry more than one person
at a time, or marry a child, or a close relative, even though
such practices are common in some foreign countries.